To my special clan mates of The Dragon racers

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king thunderboit
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Joined: 12/14/2015

I want to say thank you to the Leader Drums and others that i met in the clan  i know i havent been active as much and not being in the meetings but  this is why i am dealing with the loss  of my dad last year and its hard for me to play this without thinking of him but you all kept me playing i feel special of being apart of the clan i dont know how to say it with out being curios have one of you lost one of your family members and everything you do that you did while he was still alive and feel lost everytime you do something that he did without thinking of it  i just want to know thats what im dealing with


Thanks for the support 




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Joined: 10/12/2013
Drums R Round. Pi R Squared.

You are welcome, and I am very sorry for you loss.


Take all the time you need.


While I have lost great grandparents (from old age), I have not lost anyone as close to me as a father.  But this year a close friend of mine -an instructor from college who has helped me a lot in my degree I am in- lost her husband this year quite suddenly.  To see the impact of what one person has on the lives of many, I never met her husband but the way she talked about him I felt as if I knew him as an old friend.  She has talked about the many daily things that either he used to take care of or they did together, before she had not thought much of it, but when he was gone, the felt even more special.  Now, when she has to do those daily tasks, it does remind of her husband, but she is getting better with cherishing her memory of her husband to continue the work she is doing.


From what I can understand as an outsider looking in on a terrible situation as this, when the little things remind you of the one you lost, to me this means that the person meant a great deal to you.  That even just washing dishes, getting the mail, going to the store, or the random coversations or jokes they would have done, this means that this person was in every part of your life and is apart of you.  Not was apart of you, they still are, even after they are gone.  Their legacy lives on in you.  What they taught you about simple things to the difficult things of life, they had you at heart for you to do the right thing.  At differing times they may have had trouble teaching you things as with any family arguments and disagreements happen.  But in the end, I'm sure your father loved you dearly.  So much so, that he would probably be touched that you are constantly thinking of him in the little things you are doing throughout the day, but he would probably also challenge you to continue moving forward.


The people in our lives come and go, whether it be family, friends, or complete strangers, they are put in our lives for a purpose.  Whether it is but for a fleeting moment, the rest of our lives, or taken sooner than we wanted, what these people were about can have an impact on who we will become.  We can take all that they were and make it our goal to be that and the best person we can become.  Your father loved you dearly, but he would have also wanted you to be your own person and go from the child he loved to continue to grow in the good person you can be.


Will it be difficult?  Yes.  Will you have trouble?  Yes.  Will life try to bring you down when you are just simply trying to stand on your two feet?  Yes.


But this is the things about life.  Life is only as difficult as you make it for yourself.  Others can have impacts on you by setting the example of what a good person is like.  But it goes back on you on what you want to be in this life.  Others can raise you up and teach you the best way you know how, but it is your choice what you want to live by.  The attitude which I strive to have towards life is one of always thinking and doing for others while keeping myself strong in what I am doing.


While it may be extremely difficult with this kind of loss in your life, I challenge you to press forward, to be the person I'm sure your father knew you can be.


One other thing which helps me is having the comfort of God.


2 Corinthians 1:3-5

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, the Father of mercies and God of all comfort, who comforts us in all our affliction so that we will be able to cmfort those who are in any affilction with the comfort with which we ourselves are comforted by God.  For just as the sufferings of Christ are ours in abundance, so also our comfort is abundant through Christ.


God through His Word and the life of Christ brings me a lot of comfort as a Christian.  With all that life can through at me in affilction or abundance, my aim is to obey Christ who will comfort me anything that happens to me.


1 Corinthians 10:13

No temptation has overtaken you but such as is common to man; and God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but with the temptation will provide the way of escape also, so that you will be able to endure it.


To those wanting to become a Christian to those who are Christian, God is faithful and won't allow you to go through something you can't handle.  So, if something terrible happens to me, God must think I am much stronger than I think I am.  Then because of this passage and if something terrible happens to me, God believes in me therefore I press on.


James 1:2-6

Consider it all joy, my brethren, when you encounter various trials, knowing that the testing of your faith produces endurance.  And let endurance have its perfect result, so that you may be perfect and complete, lacking in nothing.  But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask God, who gives to all generously and without reporach, and it will be given to him.  But he must ask in faith without any doubting for the one who doubts is like the surf of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind.


Anything in life we encounter can test us to see who we are.  Through the eyes of a Christian, various trials test our faith to produce endurance which will lead to being perfect and complete lacking in nothing.  Side note, perfect in the Bible doesn't mean flawless.  Flawless in the Bible is without blemish.  Perfect in the Bible means to be mature, complete.  If we lack anything such as wisdom to know what to do, God will give it to that person if they ask in faith without doubting.  God is faithful.  Though He will answer according to His Will, but being the Creator of everything, He knows exactly what we need better than what we think we need.  Each thing which happens in our lives God will give the way of escape if it is bad or let it produce in us enduring faith if something good happens.


Philippians 4:12-13

I know how ot get along with humble means, and I also know how to live in prosperityy; in any and every circumstance I have learned the secret of being filled and going hungry, both having abundance and suffering need.  I can do all things through Him who strengthens me.


No matter what happens in life, through various trials and temptations, the greatest comfort to me is knowing through Christ Strength, I can do all things.  All things for the Glory of God for the benefit of all.


I'm not sure if you are a Christian or believe in God, if people truly ask me what comforts me, reading God's Word comforts me every time.  If you have questions about the Bible, even if you don't believe in it, I'm here to do my best to answer them and to talk about the Bible.


This is a tough time in your life, but I believe as I'm sure your father did, that you are strong and able to get through anything if you put your mind to it.  Getting past this won't be overnight, take your time.  Be patient, both with yourself, your family, and friends.  Do you best each day to get a little bit better each day.


The only way to climb a mountain is to take the first step.  The only way to over come a mountain is to take it one step at a time.


Again, take all the time you need.  The Dragon Racers will be here when you are ready.


 - Drums "httyyd"



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The Clue of the Missing Socks.

Chapters 1 and 2                         Chapter 3                                       Chapter 4

Chapter 5                                      Chapter 6                                        Chapter 7

Chapters 8 and 9                        Chapter 10                                     Chapter 11

Chapters 12 and 13                     Chapters 14, 15, and 16             Chapter 17

Chapter 18                                    Chapter 19                                      Chapter 20

Chapter 21 and 22                      Chapter 23                                     Chapter 24 and 25

Chapter 26 - There is a hidden surprise.  Can you find it?

Chapter 27                                   Chapter 28, Part 1                         Chapter 28, Part 2

Chapter 29                                   Chapter 30                                       Chapter 31

Chapter 32                                   Chapter 33                                       Chapter 34

Chapter 35                                   Chapter 36                                       Chapter 37

Chapter 38                                   Chapter 39                                       Chapter 40

Chapter 41                                   Chapter 42                                       Chapter 43

Chapter 44                                   Chapter 45, Parts 1 and 2


The Mysterious Frozen Fire

Chapter 1         Chapter 2         Chapter 3         Chapter 4         Chapter 5         Chapter 6

Chapter 7         Chapter 8         Chapter 9         Chapter 10       Chapter 11       Chapter 12

Chapter 13       Chapter 14       Chapter 15        Chapter 16       Chapter 17       Chapter 18  

Chapter 19       Chapter 20      Chapter 21        Chapter 22, Part 1       Chapter 22, Part 2 

Chapter 22, Part 3

Epilogue/Preview for my Third Story!


Thoughts of Guilt

Chapters 1 and 2          Chapters 3 and 4          Chapter 5          Chapter 6          Chapter 7

Chapter 8          Chapter 9          Chapter 10          Chapter 11          Chapter 12, Part 1

Chapter 12, Part 2          Chapter 13         Chapter 14         Chapter 15         Chapter 16

Chapter 17 and 18         Chapter 19         Chapter 20         Chapter 21         Chapter 22

Chapter 23         Chapter 24         Chapter 25         Chapter 26         Chapter 27

Chapter 28         Chapter 29         Chapter 30         Chapter 31         Chapter 32

Chapter 33         Chapter 34         Chapter 35         Chapter 36 and 37

Chapter 38, Part 1         Chapter 39, Part 2         Chapter 40, Part 3         Chapter 41

Chapter 42, Parts 1 and 2         Chapter 43         Chapter 44

Chapter 45, Part 1         Chapter 45, Part 2


On the Edge of Mystery

Chapter 1          Chapter 2         Chapter 3        Chapters 4 & 5    Chapter 6, Parts 1 and 2   

Chapter 7          Chapter 8         Chapter 9            Chapter 10       Chapter 11        Chapter 12

Chapter 13        Chapter 14       Chapter 15          Chapter 16        Chapter 17       Chapter 18

Chapter 19        Chapter 20       Chapter 21          Chapter 22       Chapter 23      Chapter 24

Chapter 25        Chapter 26       Chapter 27         Chapter 28        Chapter 29 Parts 1 and 2 

Chapter 30       Chapter 31       Chapter 32 and 33                         Chapter 34 Parts 1 and 2 

Chapter 35 Part 1         Chapter 35 Part 2        Chapter 35 Part 3        Chapter 36


The Secret Symbol

Chapter 1    Chapter 2    Chapter 3    Chapter 4    Chapter 5

Chapter 6    Chapter 7     Chapter 8    Chapter 9    Chapter 10

Chapter 11    Chapter 12    Chapter 13    Chapter 14    Chapter 15

Chapter 16    Chapter 17    Chapter 18    Chapter 19    Chapter 20

Chapter 21   Chapter 22   Chapter 23   Chapter 24 and 25

Chapter 26    Chapter 27    Chapter 28    Chapter 29 and 30

Chapter 31    Chapter 32    Chapter 33    Chapter 34    Chapter 35

Chapter 36    Chapter 37    Chapter 38    Chapter 39

Chapter 40 and 41    Chapter 42    Chapter 43, 44, 45, and 46


The Legend of Shadow Mountain

Chapter 1    Chapter 2    Chapter 3    Chapter 4    Chapter 5

Chapter 6    Chapter 7    Chapter 8    Chapter 9    Chapter 10

Chapter 11    Chapter 12    Chapter 13    Chapter 14    Chapter 15

Chapter 16   Chapter 17    Chapter 18    Chapter 19    Chapter 20

Chapter 21    Chapter 22    Chapter 23    Chapter 24    Chapter 25

Chapter 26    Chapter 27    Chapter 28    Chapter 29    Chapter 30

Chapter 31    Chapter 32    Chapter 33    Chapter 34    Chapter 35

Chapter 36    Chapter 37    Chapter 38    Chapter 39    Chapter 40

Chapter 41    Chapter 42    Chapter 43    Chapter 44    Chapter 45 & 46

Chapter 47    Chapter 48    Chapter 49    Chapter 50    Chapter 51


Teaser "Trailer" for Book 8 - Conquest of the Truth


The Crimson Storm

Chapters 1 and 2     Chapter 3    Chapter 4    Chapter 5    Chapter 6

Chapter 7    Chapter 8    Chapter 9    Chapters 10 and 11    Chapter 12

Chapter 13    Chapter 14    Chapter 15    Chapter 16    Chapter 17    Chapter 18

Chapter 19    Chapter 20    Chapter 21    Chapter 22    Chapter 23

Chapter 24    Chapter 25 and 26    Chapter 27    Chapter 28    Chapter 29

Chapter 30    Chapter 31    Chapter 32    Chapter 33    Chapter 34

Chapter 35 and Epilogue


The Wedding

Part 1     Part 2     Part 3